This adjusts our default settings to enable multiple models and parallel
requests to a single model. Users can still override these by the same
env var settings as before. Parallel has a direct impact on
num_ctx, which in turn can have a significant impact on small VRAM GPUs
so this change also refines the algorithm so that when parallel is not
explicitly set by the user, we try to find a reasonable default that fits
the model on their GPU(s). As before, multiple models will only load
concurrently if they fully fit in VRAM.
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