* Optimize container images for startup
This change adjusts how to handle runner payloads to support
container builds where we keep them extracted in the filesystem.
This makes it easier to optimize the cpu/cuda vs cpu/rocm images for
size, and should result in faster startup times for container images.
* Refactor payload logic and add buildx support for faster builds
* Move payloads around
* Review comments
* Converge to buildx based helper scripts
* Use docker buildx action for release
This adjusts linux to follow a similar model to windows with a discrete archive
(zip/tgz) to cary the primary executable, and dependent libraries. Runners are
still carried as payloads inside the main binary
Darwin retain the payload model where the go binary is fully self contained.
This should resolve a number of memory leak and stability defects by allowing
us to isolate llama.cpp in a separate process and shutdown when idle, and
gracefully restart if it has problems. This also serves as a first step to be
able to run multiple copies to support multiple models concurrently.
This reduces the built-in linux version to not use any vector extensions
which enables the resulting builds to run under Rosetta on MacOS in
Docker. Then at runtime it checks for the actual CPU vector
extensions and loads the best CPU library available
