Prior refactoring passes accidentally removed the logic to bypass VRAM
checks for CPU loads. This adds that back, along with test coverage.
This also fixes loaded map access in the unit test to be behind the mutex which was
likely the cause of various flakes in the tests.
This change adds support for multiple concurrent requests, as well as
loading multiple models by spawning multiple runners. The default
settings are currently set at 1 concurrent request per model and only 1
loaded model at a time, but these can be adjusted by setting
OLLAMA_NUM_PARALLEL and OLLAMA_MAX_LOADED_MODELS.
